Able Bodied People are Annoying
I am a mute/none verbal wheelchair user and I just had an encounter over my wheelchair, but being mute had no way to defend myself.



By Wendy C Allen

Able Bodied People are Annoying

I am a mute/none verbal wheelchair user and I just had an encounter over my wheelchair, but being mute had no way to defend myself.

An odd thing happened at PortCon, and I was wondering, are there any other wheelchair or transport chair or rollator users who have experienced this, is this a common thing for people to do? This is my 10th year at PortCorn and I’ve had various mobility aids with me every year, however, it’s been progressing to the point of more limited mobility each year. I’m now in an ambulatory wheelchair, which is similar to a rollator, in that I can push it like a rollator, or I can use it as a wheelchair. I’ve been using it back and forth as both depending on my strength, which can change throughout the day (I have MS amoung other things).

So, here’s what happened:

I got in line for the next event, I was using the transit chair as a rollator, and was there a bit early, so was the first one in line. I wasn’t sure I was in the right place at first so was by the door reading the list on the wall, then, was moving things around in my wheelchair bag. Then I was trying to figure out as the room was quite small and my chair is fairly large (barely fits through most doors) should I leave it in the hall and use my cane to go in the room and sit in a chair in there, or was there room to move one of the room’s chairs and set up my wheelchair in the room.

Now, setting up the wheelchair involved taking the entire mobility unit apart, unfolding it out, turning the parts around, screwing the frame and stuff back together — it’s a whole process that can take a couple of minutes if I have an able bodied person helping me, but with my weak muscles it can take a good ten minutes to do on my own.

So, I ask the security person sitting by the door, “I need to set up my wheelchair before the next event, is it okay if I go in the room now and stay in the back to do so without disturbing the event going on now?” Note here that it is very difficult for me to do this as I’m near mute, and not physically capable of forming words on a easily legible basis. People have a hard time understanding me and I rely a lot on writing down on pen and paper to communicate, that is why I carry a notebook with me. He tells me, sure, they are almost down anyways, they are getting ready to take they stuff down. He helps me with the door and points out a space where I can take the rollator apart and flip it out into wheelchair mode.

The event ends, people leave, I’m now halfway done converting the rollator to a wheelchair, the event I was there to attend gets set up, and I’m finially getting the wheelchair bolts locked in place. I use the cane to get the wheelchair and just as I’m sitting down — LITERALLY IN A WHEELCHAIR — the Security at the door tells the line they can go in — the line that I had just been in, and was allowed to leave to go in the room and get my wheelchair set up before the event started.

Well, the line comes in, and the first 2 sit down, but the 3rd one marches up to me and bellows at the top of her lungs, yelling as loud as she could “Why are there people in the room already? you aren’t supposed to be here! you are not allowed to stay from the last event! you have to leave the room after an event! you can’t stay here!”

Well — I also have low-functioning Kanner’s Syndrome aka “RainMan type Autism” so I’m also near mute and incapable of verbally responding to tell her the security guy let me in early to set up the wheelchair. Before I can get a chance to write my answer on my notebook, she turns around in a huff, storms to the other side of the room and sits down in a huff.

I know PortCon policy about people with disabilities, where if you have mobility units like a transport wheel chair that needs setting up and taking down to convert it between rollator and wheelchair, you can go in the room to set it up, and people with cane or crutches can go in and sit down, and anyone with any mobility device can stay in a room between events, not having to get in line again if the events are back to back in the same room. PortCon is very clear on these disability access rules.

Apparently that woman did not know about the rules regarding wheelchairs and such. And I find it is common for people in general to have very limited understanding of disability needs. But still, I never had anything like that happen before at PortCon. But also, usually I go to PortCon with a far less bulky mobility aid, most years just using my cane. But this year there was just no way I could go without the wheelchair, so it’s my first year at PortCon with a wheelchair and I was wondering: is this sort of reaction common at conventions or did I just happen to encounter a singular curmudgeon?

For those wondering…

I have 3 broken vertebrae, 3 ruptured discs, a broken sariliac, hip dysplasia (broken hip and broken pelvic bone, with hip bone pushed back into pelvic bone and fused together), in addition to rheumatism in both hips, both knees, and both wrists, as well as MS.

Rheumatism I've had since I was 8.

MS I've had since I was 16.

All the rest was done by the crazy blonde woman with the golf club, November 14, 2013, at Southern Maine Community College. I was also 8 months pregnant and she murdered my son as well. I was paralyzed for 18 months and had to relearn to walk. Her hair was wild extreme unnatural rave style 2 to 3 inch wide platinum blond and dark blonde-brown stripes.

In May 2015 I returned to work, walking minimally with a cane.

On June 24, 2016, the same mystery blond woman with her hair now dyed rusted reddish blond, woman, this time driving a late 1990s vintage gold Volvo station wagon, drove up beside my car, while I was putting groceries in my car at Scarborough Walmart, jumped out, grabbed an empty shopping cart from the shopping cart corral, and attacked again, same as she did with golf club three years earlier. This attack is the one which caused worse damage, and I have still not yet recovered from now in 2025.

That is why I have the cane, walker, rollator, and wheelchair. And which one I use is determined by how much pain I am in at the time I try to stand and move.

She is the one the FBI is looking for. He said he thinks Bruce’s family knows who she is. He said they become alarmigly, agitated, evasive, and violently hostile whenever questioned about her.

If you have any information about my son’s murderer, please call FBI Agent Andy Drewer at 207–774–9322





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Since starting my writing career in 1978, I have written 130+ novels, 2,000+ short stories, 6,000+ non-fiction articles (ALL are found on this site), a few dozen stage plays, 12,000+ blog posts, and a few comic book scripts for Disney's Uncle Scrooge and Donald Duck (I only worked for Disney one year (in 2005) and only wrote a few stories for their Danish comic books).

NOTE: I ONLY write the Quaraun series (aka The Twighlight Manor series aka The Adventures of Quaraun the Insane). In recent years there has been an issue with impersonators trying to pass books off as written by me, notably several non-fiction and Erotica books. I write neither nonfiction nor Erotica.

ALL of my books and their cover arts are listed on my website here. Beware of any books you find claiming to be me. If the books are NOT listed here on my website, they are NOT my books.

In fiction works, I specialize in Weird/Bizarro Tales set in 40th century CyberPunk-Quasi Medieval, Cozy Dark Fantasy and Science Fiction worlds featuring an intersex Elf and his Faerie husband main characters.  I DO NOT WRITE ANY OTHER SERIES - THIS SERIES IS THE ONLY ONE I WRITE.

Non-fiction (found ONLY here on my site) is daily updates of events in my life, and how-tos on how I write my novels.

I DO NOT write Erotica.

I DO NOT write books with HUMAN characters.

The Erotica books and books with Human characters, that you are finding, are written by scammers trying to impersonate me.

There is an ongoing FBI investigation into this matter. If you find any such books, please report them to FBI Agent Andy Drewer @207–774–9322

The FBI believes the people behind the impersonation accounts showing up, are relatives of the woman who murdered my son.

146 Portland Ave, Old Orchard Beach, Maine, is NOT FOR SALE.

And I'm sick of real estate agents who are too incompetent to research land ownership before they show up to stick a for sale sign in my yard.

The fact of the matter is, my son was murdered in 2013, and the friends and family of the murderer think it is funny to keep ILLEGALLY listing my land for sale, because apparently their child murdering bitch friend didn't hurt me enough by crippling me with a golf club, ripping my baby out of my 8 month pregnant belly and beating his brains out on the ground with a golf club.

Also, her friends and family like to gaslight me by doxing me on ufo and alien abduction forums, while pretending to be me, and trying to make it look like I believe in ufos or aliens, even though I think people who believe in ufos are raving lunatics and people who claim to be alien abductees are crazy. 

Worse, they've also taken to harassing my WW2 vet homeless friend, by calling HIM an alien, demon, or cryptid and sending alien crazy ufo nutjobs at try to "catch him".

So, yeah, my son was murdered and the murder's friends and family endlessly harass me, my friends, and my family both online and offline, and I'm not happy with it at all.

There is an ongoing FBI investigation into this matter.

The FBI is looking for information into:

  1. identifying my son's murderer, 
  2. identifying the scammers who listed my land for sale, 
  3. identifying the impersonators who pretend to be me both online and offline, 
  4. the harassers who are harassing the homeless man and sending the UFO nuts to harass him... 
  • If ANYONE tells you 146 Portland Ave Old Orchard Beach, Maine is for sale:, please report them to FBI Agent Andy Drewer @207–774–9322
  • If ANYONE tells you I believe in aliens, demons, or UFOS, please report them to FBI Agent Andy Drewer @207–774–9322
  • If ANYONE tells you my homeless friend is an alien, a demon, a cryptid, or named Etiole for sale:, please report them to FBI Agent Andy Drewer @207–774–9322


I'm going to repeat it because I'm tired of people showing up and making offers:

146 Portland Ave, Old Orchard Beach, Maine, is NOT FOR SALE.




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