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Random Thoughts 
On Writing Sex Fetishes In 
Bizarro Dark Fantasy Novels 



Random Thoughts 
On Writing Sex Fetishes In 
Bizarro Dark Fantasy Novels 

I am answering random questions today about very random thoughts on writing sex fetishes in bizarro dark fantasy novels featuring gay & bi-sexual yaoi couples, over on Reddit and decided to take my answers from there and expand upon them even further over here. So that's what this page is. Me rambling on about various aspects of sex fetish writing techniques I use when writing the Quaraun series. The questions I am answering are embedded here. Clicking the link in the embedded question will take you to the original Reddit page where you can see the original answer along with other people's answers. If you wish to comment, you can do so on the Reddit page where a place to do so is provided.

Random Thoughts 
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Bizarro Dark Fantasy Novels 



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Safety is something I always worry about. Not for myself so much, as I know the safety "rules", but rather for my readers, because I write CBT Erotica. CBT tends to get into the more extreme areas of BDSM and in real life a LOT of safety precautions need to be taken, otherwise you could seriously and permanently injure or even cripple a guy. But in fiction, going into details about all the safety stuff is boring dry reading that distracts from the story, so a lot of it is left out, as weaving it into the text becomes tedious. You want to write a novel not a textbook, right?

Well, I read this news article once about a couple that decided to try something they read in Erotica. They just jumped in and did it straight as they had read it from the book without stopping to consider the safety precautions and the girl died. It was all over the news (maybe 3 years ago?) And on a different BDSM forum I was on, a lot of people got to talking about the dangers of "newbies" jumping in and frenzy practicing BDSM from stuff they read in Erotica without doing any real research first vs people who took it slow and took the time to learn about the dangers and having a plan of action in case any trouble came up.

In the situation of the girl that died, it was a threesome, teenager experimenting, had no real idea of what they were doing, and soon as she got in trouble, the 2 guys panicked and split. They didn't mean to hurt her and were scared out of their minds that their parents would find out. One of her friends found her a few days later. The reports had said if the guys had thought to uncut the ropes, she'd have probably been okay, but she ended up dying a horrible death because they were just kids trying out something they'd read and had no clue what to do when things went wrong and just ran out of the house and left her unable to call for help or help herself.

It kind of shook me up, you know? Made me realize there are some really immature people out there who act first and think later.

I was like: WOE! They were like 14 years old. How in the heck did these kids get a hold of 18+ info? Then you look at places like fanfic .net where it's mostly 12 year olds writing really extreme BDSM-type stories - things that are not physically possible in real life, and then other kids read it and try it out thinking they are doing BDSM when hey are not actually.

It just made me realize that while those of us who live the lifestyle know the safety precautions, there are so many out there who jump in not realizing how dangerous this stuff can get. Makes me worry about my readers and wonder, should those of us who write BDSM be more careful about including details of safety practices, at the risk of destroying the story, for the sake of the immature readers who ain't got enough sense to research and be safe before trying BDSM out?




>If a female sub doesn't like being called slut, bitch, or whore, what are some good alternatives? I don't need to degrade, but would still love to keep the kink in the language somewhere.

I always find the phrase "my pretty little ___" works best.

  • my pretty little Elf
  • my pretty little pet
  • my pretty little chickadee
  • my pretty little lamb

Even when used with harsher words, it still feels loving

for example

  • you slut

vs

  • my pretty little slut

or

  • you whore

vs

  • my pretty little whore

"You whore" sounds mean, sounds like you are angry. "My pretty little whore" sounds comforting, gives a sense of safety.

My own Dom uses the term "chickadee". "My chickadee" he says all the time. ALL the time. Our lifestyle is considered a bit extreme by most in BDSM as there is no "normal life" in between "bedroom play". I literally have no freedom. He put locking gas cap on my car, tracks mileages, I have to have permission before going outside (makes having a job difficult, I've lost 3 jobs in the past 2 years because he doesn't always think I need to go outside, even when I have to go to work.) I can not eat without his permission, I'm not always allowed to sleep inside in the house, often have to sleep under a tarp in the yard instead. He's very extreme. Last month was our 30th anniversary, been together since August 17, 1987. We've been doing this a long time. A lot of people in the most "we do BDSM a few times a month before bed" type of BDSM, look at couples like us and think we are weird, others who are only into club scene fetish sex but not the full blown 24/7 lifestyle call him abusive. They do not understand or realize, I in fact have way more control then they realize. You see, all it takes is a word, to "turn him off" and suddenly, I have freedom again to do whatever, without his permission. Words are powerful, even more so in BDSM then anywhere else.

I think that's the part many Doms fail to understand, the fact that, they are only the Dom because the sub lets them be so. And I think, words are important, and if a word makes the sub uncomfortable, a responsible Dom will seek out alternatives.

For example: I don't like the word slut, bitch, and whore, and so... he's not allowed to use them. However, I do like the feeling of belonging to someone who is a protector that makes me feel safe. I grew up with a very abusive childhood. I never felt safe. He grew up bullied, he never felt he had control. He makes me feel safe and protected, I give him the control he desires. And words are an important factor in it.

He likes being called "My Sugar Daddy"

I like being called "my little pet"

You notice how for both of us the word "my" comes into play? Me putting "my" in front of words to him, gives him the sense of power he craves, while his use of "my" before words to me, gives me the sense of having the protector I crave. I belong to him and he relishes that. He's my protector and relish that.

I know, most people look at BDSM and they think harsh, lewd words, whips, chains, rope, leather, spankings, handcuffs... we've been a BDSM couple for 30 years and 1 month, harsh words, whips, chains, rope, leather, spankings, handcuffs..... have never once been a part of our life. BDSM is about control and shits of power, not sex.... there exists asexual BDSM couples who never engage in sex at all.... for them, words are even more important.

I think the words you use (both the Dom and the sub) with each other are the thing that can make or break a relationship. Words are very powerful. Learn to use words to your advantage, learn the words she likes, teach her the words you like, and you'll be a couple for life, completely and totally addicted to each other.


  • You've never done something you were neutral towards because your partner was super into it?

What about outside of your sex life?

Do you play first person shooter games because your partner does and says he wants you to do it with him?

Do you watch every single sports show on TV because your partner does and says you must watch them with him or else?

Are you vegan and was forced by your friend to eat meat, or lose their friendship, for example? I've known couples who broke up because the vegan girl refused to eat a hamburger. That had nothing to do with kink. That was just a bully forcing his partner to do something he enjoyed: eating meat.

Did the guy you have a crush on in high school, like shooting birds, and you hated the idea but shot a bird just to show him you could? I knew a girl who was pressured like this once. She was torn between committing murder of an innocent bird or obey the school jock in front of his bully friends. Again, someone forcing their partner to do something and it had nothing to do with sex.

I seriously question your ability to grasp what BDSM even is, if you think it's only about kinky sex. There's a hell of a lot more to BDSM then club scenes and bedrooms and there's a lot of virgins who've never had sex in the BDSM community. It's a selfish person who thinks something is only the way they want it to be and closes their minds to anyone else's way of doing things, which ironically is the topic at hand.

BDSM is a power play. It's about control. It's about allowing someone to have control over your body (sexually and otherwise), but only giving them as much control as you are comfortable giving up.

BDSM works best with couples who've been together a long time... a decade or more... before they start doing it. Why? Because it's about trust. If you don't fully trust someone, you can't fully submit to them.

If you fully trust someone, you can fully submit to them, even if you have a DOM nature.

Sure, exploring something your partner is interested in, is one thing, but there's a difference between exploring an interest and being forced into it against you will via ultimatums.

Here's a thought... what would happen if you learned your partner was secretly a member of the Ku Klux Klan and wanted you to join them in burning down the house of a local Muslim family, because they heel you needed to be more tolerate of their interest in hating non-whites? (Yes, I knew a couple who this was a think, the girl was being told she had to join her partner in doing if she wanted to stay with him. And once again, it had nothing to do with sex.)

Think about THAT, next time you say you'll try anything your partner is interested in.

My point is...

there is a fine line between a Dom and a bully, and that line is easily crossed.

  • So basically this person isn't actually into being a sub and you're trying to "force" them because being a Dom is what you're into?

I agree with this.

No means no.

Even in BDSM.

Perhaps this Dom, should try looking at it from the subs perspective.

Would HE like being dominated?

Why is she not tolerant? Is she scared? Does she even know you? If you're relationship is less then 3 years old, you really shouldn't be trying out BDSM. She hasn't had time to get to know you yet. You can't expect her to trust you yet, and in BDSM, you need trust... a lot of it.

Figure out what the issue is. Fix the issue. How can you make her feel less frightened, more relaxed, and better able to trust you?

Talk with her. Ask her. Find out, why is she uncomfortable with this? Was she abused by an uncle? You could be stepping on some serious trauma issues here and if you force the issue, you could do serious psychological damage.

If the Dom really cares about his sub, he'll put her psychological health before his sexual needs. And that'll go a long way to winning her trust.


Want to find out if your Dom is an abuser? There's a very simple way to find out...

Tell your Dom that for the next 30 days you are going to switch places. They are going to be the sub and you are going to be their Dom.

A TRUE BDSM Dom, will quickly submit to the will of their sub and switch places for the next 30 days.

An abuser, will feel that his superiority is being attacked/threatened and will absolutely refuse to be submissive to their sub.

Beware of and Dom who feels threatened at the suggestion s/he sub to their sub... that is an abusive narcissistic person who'll one day beat you to a pulp.

March 6, 2016, my next door neighbour was carried out of her house in a body bag. Her boyfriend in cuffs. Three days before that, the police had been there, trying to get her out of the house. They told her, he was only recently out of prison, out on a technicality, he had raped 27 women. A known abuser. She was standing on the sidewalk, blood gushing from her nose. Stitched across her face. And a black eye, telling the police: "You don't understand, he's not an abuser. It's a lifestyle. Like 50 Shades of Grey. He's not really hurting me."

3 days later she was dead.

Far too many women are like her... submissive to an abuser who convinces them it's okay because it's BDSM.

No.

BDSM, is NOT about beating a girl up, pushing her around, calling her a slut, bitch, and whore, degrading her, making her feel bad, and then beating her to death when she refuses to tolerate the abuse any more.

No still means no, even in BDSM.

  • But there's something about the specific phrase "tolerant of" that OP used that just sounds off to me.

Yes. I tend to agree with this.

Not only the word tolerant" but also the fact that he seems to be upset over not being allowed to use the word "slut", "bitch", and "whore"

As a general rule, a man who's first thought is to call a woman a "slut", "bitch", or "whore", is a bully. I've been in the BDSM community 40+ years now. I've never meet a man who's first choice of words was "bitch" unless he was NOT a Dom, but rather an abuser looking to use BDSM as an excuse to hurt women.

While there are women who want to be called "bitch", they are not the norm, and when a woman has to ask a man to not call her a bitch, she probably should also be reaching for the phone to dial 911, because most men who use the word bitch are quick to use their fists to beat her face in when she asks him to stop calling her a bitch.

And THAT, is NOT BDSM.

Next, you have a man, told he can not call her a bitch, so now he's fuming and having himself a boo-hoo-pity-party because "oh she's not tolerant of my desire to beat bitches to a pulp. oh boo-hoo-hoo! Pity me! The bitch won't be tolerant of my verbally abusing her."

You gotta remember, this lifestyle does attract some of the worst scum of the earth: rapists and abusers. Predators who are looking for submissive women they can take advantage of. Women who will "tolerate being abused.

In a true BDSM relationship, there is never a point when the sub is not in full and complete total control of the situation. The Dom only has as much power as the sub lets them have. The moment you encounter a Dom who doesn't know that, you've encountered an abuser.


That said, I'm not saying the OP here is an abuser. If fact, the fact that he came here asking for advice, indicates he is not. An abuser wouldn't care about the sub enough to ask: "so what's the alternative".

Sure, perhaps he used poor choice of words. It happens. But the fact that he's willing to learn, willing to make his sub feel comfortable, that says a lot. It says he's trying to be a good Dom, and that's a good thing.

Learning HOW to make your partner comfortable and safe, is an important part of BDSM after all. If he's willing to learn and willing to take it slow and help his sub gain more comfort in the situation, then that's a good thing.




When I first published this page - the one from the thread below were loading... however, the thread is now a day later, a NSFW thread and so the comments no longer load. The links take you to them still however. Just note the threads are NSFW thus why they no longer show up in the embed feature.

I'm an author of CBT (cock and ball torture) sounding is one of my fave things to write; it' also why my readers keep buying more of my books :)

have you ever googled the search term "hanging by his balls from a chandelier"?

I did once for a novel I was writing... I had this scene where the characters walked in and found the guy hanging from a chandieler by his balls... then I was like... wait a minute, could you actually do that to a guy?

So I googled to find out of it was possible... it's possible... ooooooh is it ever possible! There's a whole fetish around it! OMG! Why! I was doing it for a murder scene in a novel - these guys I found on Google search results were doing it for fun!

I'm this!

Lord Sesshomaru uber fetish

mixed in with some Scrooge McDuck, Darkwing Duck, and My Little Pony, with a touch of Smurfs...

If you ever cruised in InuYasha fanfic circles I'm the uber crazed mega wack job Sesshomaru fanfic writer known as "The Bride of Sesshomaru" .... sshhhh... don't tell any one

I think it started from Necromancer Porn fanfiction didn't it?

I both read and write Necromancer porn fanfic, I run across and think up, some of the strangest danged things out there














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The Quaraun Series On Amazon:

I am wondering why has Amazon moved the Quaraun books to the category "Transgender Romance" and also "Gay Erotica"? The base story is a deeply depressed, suicidal, drug addict Elf who's lover commit suicide and he's trying not to do the same. It's an old Elf in a tavern, monologuing a lot of flashbacks and back story scenes of his youth. These stories are dark, bloody, angsty, full of drug use, murder, rape, Medieval torture, mental/physical/emotional abuse, and references to depression and suicide - no romance in it, unless you count the occasional (and usually brutally violent) rape scenes that show up in nearly every volume - sorry - no clue what Amazon is thinking or why they moved these to Romance and Erotica, but these books are NOT even close to being Romance or Erotica on any level at all. When I published these books I put them in "Dark Fantasy" and "Yaoi". If they show up in any category other then "Dark Fantasy" and "Yaoi", it's because Amazon put them there without my authorization or approval.

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The 4 door white truck continues to sit at the end of my drive way (146 Portland Ave, Old Orchard Beach, Maine) near every night around sunset, reeving it's engine and squealing it's tires, with the driver yelling anti-gay threats and obscenities out the window. He continues to do the same thing at my dad's apartment building (Biddeford Maine) a few times a week, usually in mid to late afternoon time. He continues to follow me to shopping to various stores in various towns throughout the states.

Phrases he yells from the truck include:

"Kill or be killed remember Saco Shaws all transsexuals are alike"

"I keep a gun under the seat of my truck, I'm gonna use it to shoot you in the head, you transvestite freak"

if cars are going by he yells to them: "that thing is Ken's son, look at how's it's dressed; it's insane, it has autism, we can't allow that thing and it's gay cars in our family friend town of Old Orchard Beach"

He often babbles deranged ramblings about something he calls "the gay-pocalypse", raving lunacy about how "all the gays are gathering" on his doorstep. He raves some crazy nonsense about how Armageddon is coming and the war to end all wars will be "the gays against the Christians" and Christians have to be ready to "kill the gays"

My car is the Autism Awareness Car and had 2.5million marbles glued to it (I have Autism - savant - Kanner's syndrome) he claims tat my car "is gay" because of what it looks like. My car has been vandalized several dozen times, including to have the tires slashed 7 times in 6 months.

After dark often around 10PM, he stands at the end of the logging road across the street from me and shoots at my motohome (in February 2014 he shot holes in my neighbour's barn while doing this). I have video footage of 3 of his shootings at me here:  https://youtu.be/NUebzJ9sz9U and here: https://youtu.be/C4dZbgG-Smw

This has gone on since August 2013 now, in addition to all the vandalism, hate crimes, pet beheadings, etc that has happened, including the bomb that blew up our house in 2006.

As you know, that whole time I had not been able to get a plate number on the truck. He as just here again, and I just realized why I could not get a plate number... there are no plates on the truck, either on the front or on the back. However, as he was driving away today... I noticed, there is a plate, stuck up in the back window of the truck, where it can barely be seen, deliberately obscured from view behind a silver tool box.





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Top 202 Most Viewed Pages Of 2017 So Far
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  1. Amphibious Aliens: The Story of Etiole & The World's Most Haunted Car
  2. The GoldenEagle: An Auto-biography of the World's Most Haunted Car
  3. Medieval Servants: Their jobs and their place in historical fiction.
  4. How Long is 50,000 Words?
  5. On being a handicapped CosPlayer at PortCon Maine 2017
  6. Stephen King's The Thinner and The Gypsies Of Old Orchard Beach, Maine
  7. Writing Mute Characters
  8. Flamboyant Nipples: The KKK's New Gay Hating Site About Old Orchard Beach | The Site That Makes Fun of Terrorist Hate Crimes
  9. Writing Dares Random Generator
  10. Don't put flyers on people's cars...
  11. The Saco River Curse
  12. Our Primary Site Topic Is Small Penis? Reaching #1 on Page 1 of Google.
  13. Help FBI End Anti-Gay White Power Terrorist Attacks of Old Orchard Beach
  14. Creating Character Profiles | Meet The Characters | Who Is Quaraun?
  15. Introduction To The Quaraun Series: aka Too Gay For Old Orchard Beach
  16. The Dazzling Razzberry aka EelKat's Autism Awareness Car
  17. Autism, Asperger, PTSD, & Mad Cow: Writing Clinical Insanity Accurately | What is wrong with Quaraun? 
  18. Quaraun Free To Read Online Complete Chapter Index In Chronological Order
  19. Necromancy: Fact Vs Fiction; Or How Can You Be A Necromancer In Real Life?
  20. 600 Pages: Epic Big Super Sized Novels and Why You Should Never Write One
  21. Why Crude Adult Comedy and Pink Humor Yaoi Is Not Erotica
  22. The FBI In Old Orchard Beach, Maine Trying To Capture A Domestic Terrorist
  23. One Gypsy's Review of My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding
  24. The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach - page 1 (Online Release of Banned Book)
  25. Autism, Asperger's, And The Danger of The Self-Diagnosis
  26. Spell Casting Side Effects: Magic In Quaraun's Universe | Author Interview
  27. What Type of Music Does A Gypsy Listen To? My Top 10 Favorite Bands
  28. Beware of White Men In Gypsy Clothing: Fake Psychic Scams
  29. How long does it take to hit 1667 words?
  30. How to Write A Kiss
  31. Phookas
  32. Creating Character Profiles | Meet The Characters | Who Is GhoulSpawn?
  33. Albino Races - Moon Elves In The Quaraun Series
  34. Daily Writing Prompts (June 2017 Archive)
  35. My 30th Anniversary of Being Transgender
  36. Why Are The Quaraun Books Rated M18+
  37. How to Write Hot Sex - Tips For Erotic Romance Authors
  38. The Zaharam-Chapelle-Parunas Ethnographical World Building Questionnaire
  39. The Jiggler & The G-String Teddy Bears | The Adventures of Quaraun The Insane
  40. What exactly makes an Elf an Elf? (What is the definition of an Elf?)
  41. Online Income: The Reality vs The Fantasy
  42. World's Most Haunted Car Merchandise
  43. I Am Not GhoulSpawn | Excerpt From Rose Garden of The Pink Necromancer
  44. Old Orchard Beach Hate Crimes
  45. BoomFuzzy Chapter 1 (Novel Excerpt - Quaraun The Insane)
  46. How can your books have gay transvestite characters and not be Erotica? or Why are gay haters beating up elderly woman for wearing pink for breast cancer awareness and saying she's a transexual because only transexuals wear pink?
  47. EelKat's Guide To NaNoWriMo Featuring The 13 Step Method To Writing
  48. Autism and the Stigmas - Why Can’t You Accept Me As Me?
  49. Maine UFO Sightings
  50. Page 11 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach - The Scottish Traveller Crime Family
  51. Psychedelics In A 'High' High Fantasy World (High Elves Getting High)
  52. KBoards, The NaNoWriMo ML Rumor & The Vindictive Stalker
  53. Writing Racist Characters VS The Ku Klux Klan In Old Orchard Beach, Maine
  54. Captured By The Lich Lord | The Night of The Screaming Unicorn
  55. How To Build A Magic System
  56. I've everything but a kitchen sink. Wait, how'd that sink get in my pocket?
  57. Stephen King's Thinner Gypsies & The Ku Klux Klan of Old Orchard Beach
  58. Autistic Characters In Fiction
  59. City of The Slushies | Chapter 7 | Quaraun The Insane
  60. Manuscript Reading Services or Will You Read My Book and Tell Me What You Think?
  61. Suicide, Rape, and Abuse In The Quaraun Series
  62. Wizards vs Witches vs Sorcerers: How are they different? | Writing Fantasy Books
  63. FRED: Google's Most Deadly Update Ever?
  64. How To Write A Novel: Question Everything Before Putting It In Your World
  65. Content writing: How long do you spend creating a quality blog post?
  66. SBI: To Review or Not to Review? That Is The Question
  67. Twerking Dragons: The Joys Of Writing A Novel With A Voice Recorder
  68. A Day At Witch Pond & Fleeing To The Forest | Summoner of Darkness
  69. Transgender, Transsexual, Transvestite, or Intersex: What Is Quaraun?
  70. Sheep | GhoulSpawn The Crazed & The Rose Garden of The Pink Necromancer
  71. Colour Magic - Gypsy Style
  72. Ideas, Ideas, Ideas (Where Do You Get Them?)
  73. Keywords & Pigeons: How I Do Local Business Marketing
  74. Quaraun & Autism In Fantasy Novels
  75. The Signs Of Old Orchard Beach & The FBI Investigation Of The Town Hall
  76. Tom Addams & The Warrior's Forum
  77. A Field of Poppies On The Road To Witch Pond | Summoner of Darkness
  78. An Elf and a Lich in the Gingerbread Pit | The Night of The Screaming Unicorn
  79. Markiplier Jacksepticeye and Pewdiepie Play Resident Evil 7
  80. Santa Claus: Lich Of The North Pole (Includes NSFW 18+ CBT Yaoi scene)
  81. A Motorhome named 'No Hurry' becomes Rosebud & The Story of Ten Kidnapped Cats
  82. Create Original Content aka I Hate Jackass Gutter Scum Thieves
  83. Lost In a Space That Isn't There: Going North To Head South
  84. An Elf Gone Mad: The Rise of The Pink Necromancer
  85. Aspergers is NOT Autism
  86. Is The Quaraun Series Erotica? - No! Here's why...
  87. Summoner of Darkness: GhoulSpawn and Quaraun Trapped With A Phooka
  88. The Dungeon Master & The 1974 AMC Gremlin
  89. The Lich's True Form Revealed | The Night of The Screaming Unicorn
  90. Using work you already started for national novel writing month?
  91. World-building In The Quaraun Series: Creating a Fantasy World
  92. Books in Vacationland 2017
  93. BoomFuzzy's Gingerbread House From Hell
  94. Lets Playing Is No Longer Fun
  95. Santa's Floating Dead Body | A Scene From The Summoner of Darkness
  96. The Banshee Sisters: Bean-Nighe and Ben-Neeyah In the Swamp of Death
  97. The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach - page 2 (Online Release of Banned Book)
  98. What vlogging equipment is needed to get started as a YouTube vlogger?
  99. April 2015 Update: Too Gay For Old Orchard Beach: The Kidnapped Cats
  100. Betta Fish Aesthetic on Pinterest
  101. Domain Name Branding: Should You Put Your Brand Name In Your URL?
  102. Life As A YouTuber: How To Earn An Income From Making Videos
  103. Making YouTube Videos: How did you decide what content to make?
  104. Page 4 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach
  105. Twighilight Not Twilight
  106. YouTube Index
  107. Amphibious Aliens: My health since the stroke and Etiole . . .
  108. Are You A Satan Worshiper?
  109. Average Typing Speed
  110. Custom Leggings - Designs By EelKat
  111. Ernest Hemingway Style of Writing Literary Fiction Used In Epic Fantasy Novels
  112. Google Flagged Your Site! What To Do? (Help For Web Masters)
  113. How valuable is a writer’s group?
  114. Lives Destroyed: Amphibious Aliens 10th Anniversary Update
  115. Lost In a Space That Isn't There: Santa's Letter To Satan
  116. Summoner of Darkness: Quaraun Meets The Gremlin
  117. The Terrorists of Old Orchard Beach Put My Dad In a Coma
  118. Using Yahoo Answers to promote your book and author website.
  119. What Is This Site?
  120. You Stole My Idea - I was writing a book, but you already wrote it 10 years ago!
  121. City of The Slushies | Chapter 1 | Quaraun The Insane
  122. Creative Writing Story Prompts: September 2017 Edition
  123. Dungeons and Dragons: The Joys Of Calculating Gold Weight In AD&D 2ed
  124. Fabric Designed By EelKat
  125. My Fave YouTubers Play: Dream Daddy - The Yaoi Dad Dating Sim Otome Game
  126. Necromancy: How will resurrection affect society as a whole?
  127. Page 7 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach
  128. Pink Flowers Aesthetic on Pinterest
  129. The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach - page 12 (Online Release of Banned Book)
  130. What will a traveler encounter on the roads in your world?
  131. Are you insane? Am I? Let's Find Out...
  132. Becoming A Better Writer: How to write interesting dialogue.
  133. Character Creation
  134. Copper Cockeral Cards & Gifts
  135. Elves, Drugs, and Opium: A Look At The Drug Use In The Quaraun Books
  136. How To Stay Motivated To Write | Writing Fantasy Books
  137. Jewelry Fashions in Moon Elf Culture | World Building | Writing Fantasy Books
  138. Keyword Marketing - What to do when your best keywords are low demand
  139. Magic Systems and How to Build Them | Writing Fantasy Books
  140. NaNoWriMo Overachievers: How did you do it?
  141. Quaraun Cover Art Gallery | Fantasy Novel Book Cover Art
  142. Quaraun The Insane : Zebulon's Captive: The Last of The Moon Elves
  143. SEO Advantages of Embedding YouTube Videos On Your Website
  144. Summoner of Darkness: A Tavern Scene - Chastity Cages, and Whores
  145. Summoner of Darkness: The Return of ZooLock (free to read online)
  146. Twighlight Not Twilight Part 2
  147. Vanishing Books Update - Why 27 of my books were deleted off Amazon
  148. What is a God in Your Universe? | World Building | Writing Fantasy Books
  149. Writing Maine: How To Write About Maine Life Accurately
  150. What the Ocean Gives Me (How Things In Your Life Affect Your Writing)
  151. City of The Slushies | Chapter 14 | Quaraun The Insane
  152. February 10, 2008 - Harassment Continues in Old Orchard Beach, Maine
  153. How does a bestselling book become a bestseller?
  154. Marriage in Moon Elf Culture | World Building | Writing Fantasy Books
  155. People are not interested in long winded copy
  156. September 26, 2017 - The Latest Attack By The KKK on The Thinner Gypsies
  157. Spending Money To Make Money Online? Should You Do It?
  158. Summoner of Darkness: The Demon Cultists and The Coming of The Darkness
  159. Summoner of Darkness: The Map of The Town (novel free to read online)
  160. The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt GOTY | Completionist Run: Episode 01
  161. Trespassers: April 2007 Updates
  162. Turning Scenes, Into Stories & Writing Travelogue Style Fantasy Books
  163. Where To Get Endless Ideas For Short Stories, Novels, and Articles
  164. Writing Controversial Books: Political Correctness & White Supremacists
  165. Are Bad Reviews Good For You?
  166. Branding Yourself While Avoiding The Scams | EelKat On Content Writing
  167. Child Sacrifice in Fantasy Novels | Writing Fantasy Books
  168. How to Handle Writing Fantasy-Horror That Features Violence Against Children
  169. How would you explain your Fantasy world to a stranger?
  170. Page 6 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach
  171. Summoner of Darkness: HellBorne The Evil, Lord of Black Tower
  172. The return of Friends Are Forever - Banned and Burned it's about to be reborn!
  173. Why do Lovecraftian beings come to earth?
  174. Writing Prompts Syndrome?
  175. Autism = The Crazy Cat Woman of Maine
  176. Autism: Understanding what is really going on inside the child’s head.
  177. But what exactly IS a full time income?
  178. Content Marketing & writing: How I write content for my website
  179. Do you write a novel start-to-finish?
  180. GhoulSpawn and The Lich Lord's Lover: How To Kill a Lich
  181. How is it that the church leaders are claiming you do not pay tithes?
  182. How To Write A Novel: In what order do you create your world?
  183. I loved my children but I loved BoomFuzzy more | From Quaraun The Insane
  184. My Two Favorite People: FarDarrig and The Baby That Never Should Have Been
  185. Need help writing characters of color | EelKat on racist white readers
  186. Quaraun and the Amazon Adult Filter
  187. Quaraun GhoulSpawn and The Lich Lord's Lover: The Lover's Triangle
  188. Summoner of Darkness: Where Are You Hiding That Horse?
  189. Tired of people who don’t care. :( Tired of the harassment. :(
  190. What would happen if an Elf adopted a Human baby? | Writing Fantasy Books
  191. Page 10 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach
  192. Page 3 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach
  193. Page 8 - The Gypsies of Old Orchard Beach
  194. SCRIPT FRENZY 2010: I WON! & Psycho Stalker Attacks
  195. Wristlets, Wrist Bags, Mini Clutch, Cosmetic Bags, and Designer Mini Purses
  196. Writing Your Novel: Do you save chapters as individual files?
  197. Are old AD&D adventures still any use to current players?
  198. Autistics Have Feelings Too & Diverse Books Rant
  199. Be True To You: YouTube Gamers: "Faking" a personality until you make it?
  200. City of The Slushies | Chapter 10 | Quaraun The Insane
  201. HEA in Erotica (Should You Write Happily Ever Afters?)
  202. Stephen King's Thinner Gypsies



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